I am using Outlook 2003 on WinXP Pro SP2 setup with POP3 accounts.

When I delete an email it does not go to the Deleted Items folder - it
does not pormpt me it just disappears. The shift key is not being
pressed.

This also happens when I drag an email to the Deleted Items folder - it
just disappears. However, if the email is Unread then it does stay. As
soon as I open the email it too disappears.

I have tried to upgrade to Office sp2 but is did not fix the problem